"I knew it even before the
doctors knew," Deidre Pujols
remembers. "Minutes after I
gave birth to my daughter, Isabella,
the nurse showed her to me and I
knew that she had Down syndrome."
The 21-year-old
single mother knew instantly that
her life would never be the same.
But, she had no idea how right she
was. just weeks after Isabella's
birth, friends invited Deidre to
a Salsa Club for a girls night out.
It was there she saw a tall strapping
young man for the first time, Albert
Pujols.
"Albert never
went to clubs," Deidre recalls.
"He didn't drink. He didn't
even want people smoking around
him. In hindsight, it was amazing
that he was there that night.
"It was meant
to be."
On their very
first date at the Cheesecake Factory
in Kansas City, where both lived,
Albert made a confession. "He
told me he had lied about his age,"
says Deidre. "He had told me
he was 21, but he was really only
18. But, I told him I had a confession
of my own."
It was then that
Deidre told Albert that she had
an infant daughter, and that the
baby had Down syndrome. "I
found some literature about Down
syndrome in Spanish to give to Albert,
since he didn't speak much English
at the time," Deidre says.
"I wanted him to understand
my situation completely."
Half expecting
never to hear from Albert again,
Deidre was amazed when he opened
his heart to both mother and child.
He said he would always embrace
Isabella as his own.
The couple was
married on January 1, 2000. Soon
after the wedding, the Pujols family
found themselves with the Cardinals
farm team in Peoria, Illinois. "Albert
was making $252 every two weeks,"
laughs Deidre. "We were truly
living on love! We ate a lot of
macaroni dinners in those days.
"Then Albert
got the call from the Cardinals
in 2001, and everything went crazy
from there."
The primary focus
in Deidre Pujols' life is God and
family. Luke 12:48 is one of her
favorite Bible verses: "But
to whom much is given, much is required."
"We have
never forgotten our past or those
who are truly in need," Deidre
says. "I believe we are put
on this earth for a purpose. I believe
God has blessed us with our unique
circumstances for a specific reason.
'Faith, Family and Others' is so
much more than a mission statement
to me. I feel it's my calling."
Deidre Pujols
has served as a driving force for
the many good works of the Pujols
Family Foundation since its inception
on May 5, 2005 (5/5/5). Among her
many new projects is the launch
of a Web
site
devoted to her passion for Dominican
cooking and the disadvantaged women
of her husband's native country.
As part of that project, Deidre
recently launched a cookbook/calendar
with some of her favorite Dominican
recipes. Those can be obtained by
contacting
the Pujols Family Foundation office.
Albert and Deidre
Pujols live in St. Louis County
and have three children and are
expecting their fourth child at
the end of the year.
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